Posts in Mindset
How to understand, create, and cultivate self-love as a trauma survivor | Advice from your CPTSD Coach

When I think about the idea of self-love, it feels like it's no longer a struggle. And that was a really powerful thing to be able to say, especially when like me, you probably come from a background of trauma and trying to figure out how self-love can actually be attained. I think you have to start by asking yourself some really important questions. And those are:

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CPTSD and the impact on our concept of time

The process of recovering from trauma takes time; yes there is some irony in that. It will take time to process, to become associated within your body again and it will take time to understand how to leverage the practices that work for you in your life. When you become present and associated by aligning your mind and body, you can tap into parts of yourself that make room for growth and exploring how to better spend your time.

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An Open Letter to America during these protests

As a leader, I have to admit when I am wrong and when I have made a mistake. I have made a colossal mistake in light of the events of the last couple of weeks and done so to my embarrassment. As someone who has always prided himself on rational thinking and finding solutions to problems, I realized in the heat of the moment I did not act in alignment with principles.

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Forgiving Abusers as a Trauma Survivor

For some reason, we are taught that we must forgive people. I don't think we "must" do anything except whatever is best for the people around us and us. This isn't to say that apologies don't have a time and place and maybe I'm too jaded to forgive people that have viciously harmed me and maybe I don't deserve the forgiveness of the people that I harmed. That is fair to me. It would be one thing to “forgive and forget” but I’m on a mission to accept and create change.

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